tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29620789.post7665565815939229604..comments2023-08-05T10:38:24.640-04:00Comments on Adulthood Sucks: Do I Bring Out The Crazy in Others?DevilsHeavenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10066633834012224689noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29620789.post-4294962357240520532008-06-14T14:09:00.000-04:002008-06-14T14:09:00.000-04:00Why is that girls don't realize what they are sayi...Why is that girls don't realize what they are saying yes to when you ask them to be in your wedding? And you ask, not tell. Right? And it cracks me up when they actually gripe about the dress. I have about 8 ugly bridesmaid dresses in my closet. All of them I paid for. All of them I looked hideous in. But it was not my wedding. I felt honored to be asked to stand up for friends. So I kept my mouth shut and wore what they asked and forked over money for dresses and alterations and shoes and travel. And I never said a word. Because that is what a friend does. I didn't say anything when one bride made us carry black lace parasols instad of bouquets. Oy vay! You did the right thing, you told her she could step down if she had to. Now it's up to her to be a grown up. Don't let it stress you out, you have enough going on. You don't need to be babysitting a bunch of grown women. Girls suck.Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10546710584372716343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29620789.post-11501768161528001812008-06-13T14:32:00.000-04:002008-06-13T14:32:00.000-04:00I really can't relate to the whole dress thing but...I really can't relate to the whole dress thing but I can't stand when people tell me they can't afford something or can't do something and then they spend too much on something else. I just want people to be upfront and truthful with me and tell me that they don't want to pay for it!GMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03440065486838225307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29620789.post-71875379921999819222008-06-13T10:56:00.000-04:002008-06-13T10:56:00.000-04:00Ohh I'm so sorry hunnie. This whole wedding thing ...Ohh I'm so sorry hunnie. This whole wedding thing can be so stressful. I recently had a bridesmaid drink too much in my presence and have a melt down about money and my bachelorette, basically saying the rest of my girls were bitches and didn't understand where she was coming from. NICE.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29620789.post-62701040010269541772008-06-13T10:47:00.000-04:002008-06-13T10:47:00.000-04:00Oh, the drama! I feel your pain! I'm just SO glad ...Oh, the drama! I feel your pain! I'm just SO glad I got all this stuff over with 2.5 years ago! And I honestly don't think I had to deal with half as much drama as you brides deal with today. Plus I planned my wedding in 3 weeks, so I really didn't have time for the drama. Oh, and my 3 bridesmaids were my 3 sisters, so they knew they weren't <I>allowed</I> to go drama.<BR/><BR/>LOL!<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://mom2lo.blogspot.com" REL="nofollow">Just Another Day...</A>mom2lohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04174307421334196127noreply@blogger.com